On ‘Life Quakes’, hosts Jessica Reyes and Patricia Wu hears from a viewer who found out their spouse has gambled away their retirement savings. Guest Dr. Cortina Peters offers advice and a roadmap for moving forward.
Acknowledge the Betrayal
Dr. Peters emphasizes the importance of acknowledging the deep sense of betrayal that comes with financial infidelity. It’s okay to feel hurt, angry, and scared.
Communication and Boundaries
Openly communicate your feelings with your spouse and establish firm boundaries around finances and future decision-making.
Take Action
Develop a plan to assess your financial situation, seek professional advice, and consider therapy to address the emotional trauma and rebuild trust.
