Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places: Bell Hooks on Self-Love

In a world that often tells us to seek external validation, Bell Hooks’ wisdom cuts to the heart of true self-love. Her words, “One of the best guides to how to be self-loving is to give ourselves the love we are often dreaming about receiving from others,” invite us to start our journey of love from within.

Redefining the Source of Love

Bell Hooks challenges the idea that love must come from outside ourselves. This empowers us to stop waiting for external validation.

The Power of Self-Acceptance

Offering ourselves the love we crave – compassion, understanding, and forgiveness – creates deep self-acceptance.

Setting a Standard

By treating ourselves with love, we raise the bar for how we expect others to treat us, leading to healthier relationships.

A Transformative Journey

True self-love isn’t a destination but an ongoing practice that can transform our relationship with ourselves and the world.


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